The 5 6 level of frenship

Well to those who heard me say this before, initially i've only said there are 5 hierarchy level of friendship and they are ....

Aquitance

Normal friends

Good friends

Clost friends

Buddies / Brethen

But after some incident that happened for this past few months, i can't help but to add another level to this hierarchy...

Aquitance
Normal friends
Play mate

Good friends
Close friends
Buddies / Brethen

Please try not to think to the other side of the word, as i am being serious here.

So why do i add this level there? As i was saying, tis past few months i've been experiencing something that i've not had before. To those of u who were following my blog, u might have noticed that i mention "The Ladies" a lot as they are among my closest girl friends in uni BUT~~ although i've placed them as my closest frens yet i do not know them as well as i should which got me to think that are we as close of a fren as i think we are? The reason that got me thinking about this is that, after knowing them for about 3 years, this year (after i graduate) is the oni time that i got invited to their bday celebs and to met up wif them that is NOT within the campus and the thing that really triggered this was when they begin to ask me questions about themselves... i could answer at all coz i totally dunno wat to say.

Y do i say play mate? Whenever i sees them in uni, i would walk up to them, crack some jokes, maybe try to pull some stupid stunts and then i'm gone, gone wif the wind; so its kinda like those "Out if sight, out if mind" kinda thing, so my presence is just mearly... just for fun. Never once i sat down wif them to talk about stuff that frens talk about, may be a little but never a serious session, its like i've never spend time to actually get to know them as well as i should. So am i worthy enuf to call them as my good friends?? I mean as good friends, i guess it would be normal to know each other's hobbies or favourite food/drink or their favourite activities right? But i know nothing of such things of them, and i doubt that they know mine either and if i were to post a question of

"Name 5 facts about me"

I believe most likely the answer that i would get would include:

1. I'm Leech
2. Articulate
3. Active
4. Likes gaming
5. Helpful

I mean this are the kind of things that almost anyone who've met me could tell u but could u tell me more ?? I seriously doubt that they could in fact i think not many of my recently known frens could. So am i a good friend?? I doubt that about myself... sigh~

Anyway i couldn't believe how closed we've become after all of us has graduated from uni, we actually go out sometimes just to met up, which is something that has never and i do mean NEVER happened b4 in my uni days. Well i guess it's still ok for me to call them my closest friends in uni ... at least now, i do feel the "friendship" part in this friendship.

So the 1 million question now is, where do U think u are in MY hierarchical ladder?

P/S: If any of u ladies who are reading this... ... Please dun misunderstand me, i'm just saying this coz it's kinda odd for me to call u friends when i myself did not make any effort to further improve in our relationship, that's all... so please dun feel bad about this post.

Hamachi~~~ HooOOO~~

Did 2 things yesterday night that still got me tingling till now hehe...

First is that i've rejoin the world of online LAN gaming party that we use to do back in our uni days. Oh yea~~ My hamachi was down for sometime now (i wasn't able to connect) so yesterday i went to clear all its old files and reinstalled again and voilà i was in the game muahahaha i'm back to the world of DotA again.

The second thing is... ... well its kinda a bit sickening but its damn funny hahhaa... I went searching on youtube for this clip and it was so damn hillarious that i couldn't keep it in... damn that japanese is just too damn funny (not to mention sickining) all thanx to my david for introducing me to it hahaha... i dun wanna say out the key word coz i dun wanna contaminate the minds of my dear readers :p hehehe but if u're interested to find out i can PM it to u hehehe

Sinusitis

Sinus infection symptoms are caused by inflammation and blockage of the sinus cavities. Sinuses are hollow pockets of air located on either side of the nose, behind and in-between the eyes, and in the forehead. The sinuses produce mucus that cleans and moistens the membranes of the nose and throat. Each sinus has an opening into the nose that allows for free exchange of mucus and air. Sinus infection symptoms result when these openings get plugged. As mucus and pressure build in the sinuses, a perfect breading ground for bacterial growth is produced.

Sinus infection symptoms include:
- Headache
- Pain
- Upper jaw and tooth ache
- Tenderness around the nose, forehead and cheeks
- Swelling and pressure around the eyes
- Ear ache and infection
- Fever
- Weakness or fatigue
- A cough, runny nose or nasal congestion

Taken from http://www.xlear.com/articles/sinus-infection-symptoms.aspx

Informative enuf?? Sigh~~ My in-house doctor at work just diagnose me wif sinusitis or sinus infection... it was in sat after i took the medicine i got from the clinic that i start to feel a lil fever-ish and back then i was still out whole night wif HC and Liz, having dinner and visiting my poor fren YK.

Then on monday i start having a headache and i feel vry weak more to sleepy basically then i think i really nid to see the doc. To my disbelieve, there were a lot of ppl sick too that day hahaa... bad weather we r having here in KL. Then the doctor told me this... sinusitis. The best part was the fact that this is actually a life problem, it can't be cured it can only be prevented; double sigh. I think i might go and get a 2nd opinion coz i doubt anyone like to hear that they got a life problem.... Not long after that i took an MC and went home to rest. Tis is my 1st time getting and MC hahah.. feel kinda happy hahha.. else that 14days will be burned so y waste it =p

Anyway tis few days i was basically blowing my nose having tonnes of mucus and when i cough... my head felt like the head of a nail wif a hammer hitting on it... talk about hell. Anyway after a few days of medication and rest i think i'm feeling betta, but too bad is that my cough is still like a wild horse, totally out of control. I was at the point where i thought of buying my old inhaler to help to stop my coughing, i'm feeling a wheezing in between my coughs... To make matters worse, tis is suppose to be my holiday~~~!!!! Please i wanna enjoy my holiday~~~!!!!!

Sick + injured

Guess wat... i'm sick again~~~ wait a min... ... i dun think is suitable for me to use the word "again" i never recovered so how could i be sick again if i've never recovered in the 1st place ... ... ... anyway, i'm sick... had a cold and was sneezing my lungs out in the office, really feel bad, it's like i'm trying to make everyone in the office sick T_T. Well hopefully no1 is really sick else i'll be the one to be blamed.

At night, HC + Liz + CCL and i went out for dinner, since mum's not around so i nid to settle my own meal that night. We went to SS17 in PJ for some Itallian food again... well maybe it was because i was kinda sick and the seat wasn't actually that comfy so i din quite taste my food as i normally would but to make matter worse is that Liz actually felt bad for bringing me there coz she thought i hated it... erm... well maybe if the seat was a little more comfy then it might be betta but ytd... erm... anyway i was kinda disturb wif wat CCL said during our meal
"Regardless its tasty or not, i would still finish it."
Well i think its kinda bad for him to say this, i mean if u like it then say u like it, if u dun then say u dun... wat is that remark is suppose to mean? Regardless, Liz still tried to bring us to some place different, so try to appreciate it a little.... sigh~ that guy will nvr change...

During our meal we called YK up asking her to join us and wat we heard was kinda shocking. During her training she somehow fell and somehow er... twisted?? Well i'm not sure of the word here... but her arm wasn't in a vry good shape. So we went to pay her a visit. Y izzit that so many people are injured lately... last week it was SC who fell and injured her leg now YK?? These ladies are surely best of frens, even injury oso wanna have it together hehe =p

At her place we sat down and started chatting, and the best part was the fact YK's dad was there too. We chatted wif uncle and had quite a few good laufs. But the most memorable was the "Turtle" joke on Liz. I would plan to share it here but i afraid i might not live to blog another post if i did hehe... so i'll kept it to myself and have a giggle once awhile when i see Liz again hehee...

Got back home around 2 and after bathing i went to bed around 3 just to find that the night is just so bloody cold... i din turn on my fan and yet i was sleeping wif a blanket thightly over me.. brrr~~~ wat a nite...

Edited on 16-12-07 at 2311

z Z z Z z Z z

After 2 days of holiday... well its not a good day to work. I finally decided to concentrate on the DDR thingy that my boss ask me to do so i started studying it today. Its either i no longer have that hunger for knowledge or i've grown blunt or its due to the holidays, while i was reading that damn thing my head got heavier and heavier, and i swear if i was sitting on a scale, the scale would go would bonkers due to the weight of my weight-increasing-head :p

After i gone through about 70% oni i noticed the reason behind me not understanding those stuff~~ i was reading it under the assumption that it was a board level thingy but instead, it was actually a silicon thingy instead =_=" no wonder i'm unable to get the picture... i was looking at the wrong hall trying to appreciate the wrong thing hahaha... after i got the hang of it the things start to make sense and i think i'm making progress hehe (hopefully)

Anyway its been the 4th day that the weather is like this... raining .. sigh~~ kinda moody u know... been having a lot of things on my mind; work, my colleague, and now "that" if it weren't for the squeeking rascal and the Moo Moo things might be betta if not different.. maybe... well i've made a decision and by hook or by crook, i'll live up to my words. Stick and stones could break my bones but words can never hurt me. 50 - 50 ??? HAHAHAHA~~~

~~ Curve ~~

Ytd almost out of the blue i got sms from the mouse asking me, whether do i wanna join them for lunch... and i did. So today we went. I got to JJ jsut to know that there was a change of plan. Instead of going to Ampang we went to the Curve which was fine wif me coz i've nvr been there since its opening but the problem is that i nid to drive my bike all the way to the Mouse's house instead otherwise she'll have a hell of a time bringing me back. Its been awhile since i last drove my bike but to drive from A to B just to drive to C but going pass A again... ... =_="

Anyway we begin wif an Itallian lunch b4 heading to the Curve... the place looks vry nice, vry well decorated. The place look magnificant. We took some photos and among them i really like the 1 i took of the mouse wif the xmas trees as background. Just nice haha..

Oh we went to try out the donuts and to my suprise there was a vry long que and i was like wow.. is this donut really that nice?? There were about 20 odd staff inside helping to make the donut and a few more to help sell them... RM 9.50 for 6 but it costs RM 2 per donut a big difference if u ask me.. We went to have tea while devouring the donuts and the taste was really good... no wonder there was such a long que outside hahaa... but talking about the tea, the tea was really nice. I can't remember when was the last time i really had tea coz usually i would order coffee instead.. Too bad i dun remember the name of the shop we went into..

Anyway in the end, the biggest winner was the Mouse, she manage to squeeze 2 xmas presents from me and HC, and the biggest lozer?? Wuakakak.. yup, u've guessed it, ME~~ hehe.. well i din get anything for myself coz i can't seems to find anything to my liking. I'm really looking for one of those transparent thingy (hehe i chose not to tell it coz i dun wanna sound too desprate :p) but i can't seems to find it.. sigh~~ kinda frustrating sometimes. Well i guess that's part and parcel for being me, the eccentric fella hahahaa... well hopefully i'll be able to see it sometime in the future coz i've been looking for it for a few years now.

We later head on to Kepong for dinner coz we wanted to send HC to take the train home but hahaa.. when we got there.. .. there was 1 song that was playing in my head.. 25 minutes we were 7 minutes late for the last train hahahaa.. so instead i drove HC home but not without bringing them to have a wonderful KL night view near my hse and they loved it haha.. kinda proud that i stay here, i can enjoy the view anytime i wish :p

Hehe come to think of it, todays post dun seems to make sense hahaaha.. i mean the sentences dun seems to link with the next etc hahaah.. well maybe i'm tired hahahaa.. so gtg ~~

C~o~l~d~~ D~a~y~

~~~ It's been raining since u left me

Now i'm drowining, in the flood~~

You've always seen me as a fighter

But without you i give up~~

Taken from Always by BonJovi

Well all i wanted was basically the 1st line hehehe...

Brr ~~ today is not a good day for work, god damn it... it's bloody cold, most suited for nothing but a long, long time in bed... ... sleeping.. .... but sigh~~ Those days are far, far away now... sigh~~

Sometimes i can't help but to feel kinda stupid, well i have flexi-hours so i can actually spend more time in bed then oni go to work, but instead, i chose to wake up early, go to work early, and come home late... Wat am i?? Stupid?? Hahahaa... On this cold n beautiful day, i should hv just stayed in bed awhile longer n take full advantage of the weather to catch more Zs.

The whole day i'm in the office.. ... ... lazy, yup i'm lazy today. Dun quite feel like giving my 100% today. Things oni seems to pick up after lunch where i start to scramble my brain over that "thing" i'm workin on... ... The time just can't be matched~!!! ARRRRRR frustration clouds me in the office today hahaha... well nid to continue working on it tmr, nid to check the values again hahahaa... life sux :p

Bad streak

As if wat happen few days back is not enough... my SATA2 HDD just crashed (now i'm using my old rig) and all my photos is in there.... wanted to continue on my Penang trip but now totally lost the mood to write sigh~~~ and today my office PC give me the damn old problem again... can u believe it, AGAIN~~~!!! This is the 3rd time WTF~~~!!!

Why izzit that i'm the oni one in the dept that get this problem? The program keep on generating rubbish files for me... WHY~~~~!!!

But my day din go all that bad... at least i've bought that belated bday gift that i sort to get hehe... after work went to find Grn and wif her help we were able to get a belated present wuakaka.. its about 2 mths late haha.. maybe i'll we'll substitute it as a christmas present instead wuakakakaka.... see how it goes :p