Staying together

There is a chinese saying that "It;s easier to meet than to stay with each other" to those who have experience the life of staying outside your own home, under a roof that doesn't not belong to you would understand the meaning behind those words. But sometimes the matter is made worse when you are staying with a bunch of your OWN frens.

I'm staying with a few of my friends and ... ... ... well its not easy, its not like if u stay with a bunch of strangers where u can really let out small tantrums and point out things when u are unhappy about something and people tends to understand and try to comply; with friends its kinda hard to tell them upfront "Hey, u got a big problem. Do you know that u ... ... ..." well its just not that simple.

Another thing is that we tend to quarrel a lot... mostly about small petty matters that dun even make senses. It is just us or does this happens to everyone? Sometimes i kinda ency those staying with strangers. At least when they are unhappy with their housemates they can always complain to their friends, but how do u complain to your friends about your housemates when your housemates are their friends too? Hahaha... headache, headache...

But there is a good side to staying with your friends. U can do a lot of crazy stuff coz basically we are from the same background, crazy, idiotic, mad, u name it we "should" have it. Wat i wanna say is that we are in sync in a lot of things so it is easier i guess. Yet again, how do you say no to a friend? Sigh~~ Lost of countless sleepless nights coz i can't say no....

This brought me to another thought, i wonder how about those who stay with their other half? How do you stay with your boyfriend/girlfriend and still maintain a good relationship? I mean wat do you do after both of you quarrel? Where do you go hide and let out your problems? Haha... big question indeed...